the defining decade

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A coworker suggested I read read copy of,  The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter–And How to Make the Most of Them Now, as my next year. I welcomed the suggestion with open arms. I couldn’t put this book down, it was half because of the message and partly because the text was at least 14 point text. Here’s a little a little synopsis on the book, “we have a “thirty-is-the-new-twenty” culture tells us the twentysomething years don’t matter. Some say they are a second adolescence. Others call them an emerging adulthood. Dr. Meg Jay, a clinical psychologist, argues that twentysomethings have been caught in a swirl of hype and misinformation, much of which has trivialized what is actually the most defining decade of adulthood.”

I was three pages deep into the book and I remembered about a year ago Paul sent me a link to this TedTalk and said watch it, you won’t be sorry. So, I challenge you to do the same. Watch this video. Tell me what you think.

The woman giving this TedTalk is the author of the book mentioned above. It was beyond interesting to hear and read her thoughts on why 30 isn’t the new 20 and what twentysomethings need to do to capture their future. The perfect way to sum up this book is fro this excerpt: The future isn’t written in the stars. There are no guarantees. So claim your adulthood. Be internal. Get to work. Pick your family, Do the math. Make your own certainty. Don’t be defined by what you didn’t know your didn’t do. You are deciding your life right now. 

This read was beyond fascinating. If you read this book, I would love to hear your thoughts. If you watched that clip, I want to hear your thought, too. Do you agree with Dr. Jay?